Are our instructions clear… or just noise with a smile?

“Let’s all get ready!” sounds nice - but if no one moves, it wasn’t an instruction. Instructions should land, not float into the toddler abyss.

What can we do?

  • Say it, show it, check it - words, gestures, eye contact.

  • One job at a time - “Get your shoes” not “Get your shoes, wash your hands, pack your bag, and call your mum.”

  • Avoid question traps - “Shall we tidy up now?” = no, we shall not.

  • Use silly triggers - “When I clap twice, freeze like a banana.”

  • Follow through - don’t say it ten times. Say it once, then help it happen.

Reflection Prompts

  • Are we giving simple instructions or rambling out loud?

  • Do we reteach when children miss it, or just repeat louder?

  • Are we using play to build listening - or only correcting when it fails?

  • Could our transition cues be more engaging and fun?

Activities to Try

  • One-Step Relay: Outdoors, shout one simple action - “Touch the wall!” “Find something blue!”

  • Detective Replays: Missed an instruction? Make them detectives to recall it.

  • Instruction Stations: Rotate playful tasks like “Put on a hat,” “Line up like giraffes,” etc.

  • Characters in transition: Fun ways to signal the next task “Be a butterfly and flutter towards the sink for washing hands”, “How would a cat/wizard/unicorn wait in their seats for lunch?’